Monday, October 27, 2008

Domestic Violence Awareness Month and the Hudson Family Tragedy

Today, Jennifer Hudson confirmed that the body of a seven-year-old found in the back of a white sedan earlier this morning was indeed her nephew, Julian King.

So, in one horrible weekend, she lost her mother, her brother, and her nephew. Her sister, Julia Hudson, may have been in a domestic violence dispute with her estranged husband, William Balfour, who is presently in police custody.

As we mourn this tragedy, and as the newfound celebrity status of Jennifer Hudson helps to keep a spotlight on this unfolding horror, let us keep the family in our prayers while also taking the time to acknowledge that October is Domestic Violence Awareness Month.

I call attention to Professor Black Woman's commentary on the Cycle of Violence and how we, as women, and as a community, must be aware of the warning signs that might suggest that you too could be in a domestic violence situation.

This week, on Thursday, October 30, the second annual Document the Silence of Violence Against Women of Color will be held across campuses and in various communities nationwide. There are three things you are being asked to do:

1. Wear Red (i.e. ribbons, clothing, clown noses, etc.).
2. Read "Out of Silence" Litany at 8:00 pm/central time.
3. Take Pictures and/or video and email them to beboldbered@gmail.com.

2 comments:

The Weaker Vessel said...

My name is Myra Spearman and I am the Founder and Executive Director of The Weaker Vessel, Inc. We are the only National On-line Database of Domestic Violence Abusers.

Now you can go on-line to see if the person you're dating has been abusive in past relationships!

Please visit the site: www.theweakervessel.org

As I stated on my blog, Julia Hudson was in an abusive marriage. Because of his violent past, she probably should have paid more attention to his threats. Most abusers do not change their mode of operation. Meaning, 1998 he was violent, he spent time in prison and was released. He did not come out of prison reformed, he didn't have a change of heart or a change of behavior.

My heart went out for little Julian, he didn't have a say in what happened to him. This is what mothers don't understand. You get into a relationship because you find someone that you're interested in. You bring them HOME!!!

Your children can not tell you who to bring home, out of fear, they will not tell you what abuse has happened to them. You make your own children a prey... and you don't even realize it.

I prayed for Julia and Jennifer Hudson.

I cried (as if I had lost my own son)for Julian.

We at the Weaker Vessel, Inc. are always in need of good volunteers, individuals who can share their time, treasure and talent.

We truly believe that one person can make a difference!!!

Anxious Black Woman said...

Thank you, Myra, for sharing information about your organization as well as sharing your thoughts here.

Welcome to my blog! :)