
I admit to being conflicted about Oprah Winfrey's new project: the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academy. I watched her program "Building a Dream" when it aired on ABC last week - both last Monday night (Feb. 26) and Saturday evening (Mar. 3) to see if I could determine my feelings about this truly inspiring story of Oprah Winfrey keeping her promise to Nelson Mandela to build a school in South Africa for disadvantaged young girls with leadership potential. I wept at the girls' stories, I felt their glee and joyous expectations when they left their impoverished one-room shacks and moved into their luxurious dorm rooms at Oprah's $40 million academy. Surely, this could only be a positive story however you spin it, right?
So, why was I bothered, not only at what was shown, but also what Oprah revealed later when she appeared on Ellen's talk show to tell us behind-the-scenes stories, like what had transpired after the lavish Christmas party that she hosted for the first 154 pupils at her exclusive new girls academy? Apparently, the students, who were unused to eating so much food, had eaten until they vomited. Worse, many more stuffed their pockets and their bras with the leftover food so they could bring it back to their families who were still deprived of such luxuries, subsequently spoiling their school uniforms so early in the game.
Sigh. Oprah, Oprah, I love ya, but I have to ask: should we really be encouraging South African youth to indulge in the worst forms of American material culture: including binge eating and self-absorption, for why were these young girls not even given containers for leftovers? Did you really think that young girls, who are raised in an African culture that often puts communities first over self, would just eat to their heart's content without also thinking about how they could provide their families with the same food they're eating? After all, these are girls with "leadership potential," and from what your program showed, they were also responsible daughters and granddaughters who have already assumed the role of caregiver and provider. Of course they were going to stuff their bras and pockets with food to take back home: they were not simply going to eat just to fill their stomachs and their stomachs alone! They couldn't think of themselves, they had to think of their family as well. But, that's just one minor incident that I could tear apart ad nausea (no pun intended).
But, there's something else going on here. What does it mean for Oprah to present herself as a benevolent matriarch, even "fairy godmother," for the program was designed so that we would appreciate Oprah's gifts of luxuries bestowed on her new "daughters" (more on this later). We were expected, as American viewers, to look at these young girls' lives, who were eking out a living in impoverished townships, with no electricity or running water, and violent gangs of scary black men who might rape and infect these innocent young girls with HIV. I had a chuckle looking at Oprah so far removed from her own Mississippi roots when she couldn't even lift up a bucket of water to balance on her head, like the young girl she was with (here's a clue, Oprah: it's called a bandanna, you wrap it around like a turban, place it on your head, and if positioned correctly, the bucket should balance itself on this apparatus - I'm sure your rural, impoverished grandmother knew something about this, if you had listened to her various instructions instead of daydreaming that you would never do what she was doing; you might have spared yourself the embarrassment of not being able to do what most women of African descent in this world know how to do - but I digress). Even as I watched that scene, I thought: hmmm, no running water, I wonder what Oprah could do in terms of philanthropy or international policy to address this kind of poverty, for wouldn't it be useful to raise money to provide such developments in Africa, so that young girls weren't forced to leave their homes for the better life that their newfound "mother" in Oprah can offer them?
From the beginning of this program, we were presented with the camera panning the landscape. I could not help but think of the early European explorers who surveyed the African land before claiming it. Oprah just claimed a piece of it and built a school decorated to all of her Oprahlicious tastes. Great, I don't begrudge her fulfilling her own dreams like this, and I would love to send my daughter to such a comfortable, padded school replete with beauty salon and yoga loft. I wished she had spent more time describing the curriculum, the library (I'm an educator, so I'm very curious about how these girls are being educated), and state-of-the-art computer labs and classrooms (if there were any - I hope so).
Why did the program focus on all the nice clothes, shower stalls, and lovely dorm rooms and living room areas and art decor when I want to know how and what the girls will be learning?Who are their teachers? What credentials do they have? I'm sure they're all qualified, but why would the program not focus on the "education" these young girls so value but instead focused on the material comforts that they'll be experience in direct contrast to their impoverished upbringing?). How ironic, considering that Oprah answered her critics - who wanted to know why she didn't build a similar school, say in the south side of Chicago, her present city of residence - by saying that American kids only want material possessions, whereas South Africans prefer to get an education. Gee, I wonder where our kids picked up that attitude, Oprah, especially when you love to give away cars and treat some of your audiences to makeovers and the like.
I cannot help but think that, with this program, Oprah seems to be filling a far too familiar role of benevolent colonialist, colonizing Africa, reclaiming the "motherland" (as many affluent African Americans are wont to do), and at the same time perhaps fulfilling a wish to have children - incidentally quite a number of the students featured in the program are without mothers, just as Oprah herself is without "daughters," until now.
I commend Oprah for paying attention to the plight of young girls and encouraging Americans (especially African Americans) to consider the youth of the continent, but is this really an expression of black feminism or an attempt to colonize Africa (and, no, just because we have African blood, African Americans are not exempt from recreating similar power dynamics) for the sole purpose of living out our own dreams of motherhood and philanthropy? Wouldn't you know that Oprah is building a home right next to her school so that she can monitor her daughters' growth? Not to mention she has committed to funding their 4-year education to any college or university they attend in the world.
So, despite her efforts to create future leaders of South Africa, she's almost ensuring that 1) the girls will leave their country, after all, when they're ready to date and marry, can they really go back to the men of their community and "lift" them up to their level? That ain't gonna happen!, 2) the girls will be completely unfitted for their communities, and 3) the girls will subscribe to an elitist identity, as one girl already expressed this, when settling into her dorm room: "I was meant to live this life!"
They're very charming, these young girls, but I only hope, 15-20 years down the line, that they don't do what most spoiled daughters do when their mothers fail to equip them for the big bad world from which they have been sheltered (as this academy will become a shelter for them as well): blame their mothers for everything when their lives don't unfold according to plan. Girls can't arise as "leaders" when their very community fails to see them as such. They and everyone else will need re-education if they were to ever find seats in parliament or on the boards of multinational corporations. In the meantime, I hope the mass puking that occurred on their inauguration Christmas dinner is not an ominous foreshadowing of things to come.


22 comments:
Hi, ABW,
I discovered your blog via the Blog and the Bullet. You give and honest and perceptive analyisis of the situation re: Oprah's school, and your title sums it all up beautifully.
And, I agree; perhaps instead of the millions O put into the school, she could have contributed significantly to the improvement of not only an entre country, but also an entire continent.
On noting your topic, I couldn't help but wonder which Oprah Camp you belonged. When it comes to Black folks and Oprah, I've concluded that the two most vocal groups are the Haters and the Worshipers (smile). The Haters can't stand Ole Girl, mainly (as far as I can tell) because they think she caters to White folks too much (LOL). The Worshipers, on the other hand, defend Ms. O with a zeal that makes one wonder if they believe she is, in fact, a borderline deity.
So, I was pleased to discover that I couldn't conveniently toss you (or your opinions) into either category. While I still maintain that it's Oprah's money and she has a right to do whatever she durn well pleasese with it (smile), I must admit you made some extremely thought-provoking points about both Ms. Winfrey and her South African leadership school for girls.
Something about Oprah's Favorite Things Shows (where she gives away a series of high-priced items to all of her unsuspecting audience members) has always made me cringe. I don't know . . . there is just something about all of those folks screaming, hyperventilating, "getting happy" and durn near speaking in tongues that makes my flesh crawl. But I never thought about how her recent criticism of the materialism that is, indeed, rampant amongst our youth, comes off as a tad hypocritical when viewed in light of what she'd been doing for years with those particular give-away shows. Also, since I missed both airings of the leadership program, it came as a shock to read that the teachers, computers and the curriculum weren't featured more prominently in the televised special.
So, thanks for sharing your perspective. In voicing your concerns, you highlighted more than a few issues that were on the verge of slipping by my radar altogether.
Anxious---you've put into words the uneasy confusion I've felt about Oprah and this South African school. If Oprah were a white man, the imperialist intentions would be so much easier to recognize and name. But what can we say about a poor Black woman made good, who just wants to give back to poor Black girls? But the question is, what exactly is she giving back? The sad fact, as you made clear, is that African Americans are as capable of perpetuating imperialist paternalism as much as any other American. That's the consequence of growing up here in the States---we've been taught that our standards of living are the norm for humans, when the exact opposite is true. But how would US Black folks know what's going on with Black folks around the world? We don't learn about the real world (especially Africa) in school or on TV.
Another point that was driven home to me by your post: Privilege, even in small amounts, can be corrupting. African Americans may have the lowest net worth of all Americans, but we still have a higher level of consumption than everyone else in the Diaspora. I doubt the average African American could cut for a day in the Global South. Now Oprah may be a spoiled billionaire, but she is hardly alone when it comes to Black folks who are estranged from the land and labor. Most of us in 2007 don't do even half the work that our parents' generation did. That expectation of convenience that comes with being the world's consumers has adversely affected the consciousness of Black women, so that it's hard for us to identify with our sisters around the globe.
I really must thank you for this amazing post. I'm going to write about it on my blog and I would like to link to this post as well. However, I didn't want to do that without coming here and commenting first. I feel really sheepish about this but I have to say that before I read your post, I didn't even consider any of these issues. I saw the special on television and I was just really happy for these girls who were going to have "all their dreams come true" without even engaging in any critical thinking about the context in which this was occurring. You've given me a lot to think about.
P.S. I heard about your post via BrownFemiPower's website.
You make some very perceptive observations about Oprah and her school. Re: about the curriculum and what the girls are learning? The same questions have occured to me as well.
When Oprah announced the establishment of her school, I did not get overly-excited about it. Although there was something smarmy about it to me. Thank you for packaging what I was feeling in such a cogent and thoughtful manner. I look forward to reading more from you.
Lori, glad to be of service in putting this issue on your radar. Funny, you talk about how her audiences' happy dance and hyperventilation during her "Favorite Things" shows make your skin crawl...how about the sight of 154 schoolgirls unused to bounty puking after an all-you-can-eat Christmas banquet?
Y, I believe those are the issues we have to struggle with, even as disadvantaged African Americans. How do we recognize our privilege as U.S. Citizens, as Global North residents? We're so used to focusing on our oppression that it's hard to imagine that there are ways in which we can oppress or contribute to the oppression of others.
I found this entry really interesting. I too have been following up on the school and have been unsure where I stand on it. Have you read the newest artical about the strict school rules? Parents are only allowed to see their children 2 hours once a month and the kids aren't allowed to use mobile phones or emails during the week. Parents are describing it as a prison and I would agree. It seems accessive and it seems like Oprah wants to assume the position of parent in the girls lives..
Anyway, thanks for the food for thought :). I love the name of your blog
I have often felt a similar uneasiness about Oprah. On the one hand, you want to be really happy for her success and really supportive of her seemingly genuine desire to use her money to make the world more comfortable for people. Her Angel Network, while a bit hokey and touchy feely, is a good idea. But her Leadership Academy just smacks of imperialism and unchecked privilege. And you are absolutely right about Oprah's desire to "mother" these girls--she has created a fantasy of what black girlhood can be and gone to a place where she can let that fantasy run free. I felt a similar unease during her Legends Ball (a special that also focused on the decadence of the food and setting). The whole time the young'uns were fawning over all those legendary actresses and singers and writers, I kept thinking about the ordinary black mothers and grandmothers and sisters and aunts not there. Where were the black women who actually made Oprah's life possible?
Ki, could you let me know where you read that article? That only makes the whole project sound even more sinister! What's with the isolation?
I had heard about that Ki, as well--I heard it on one of those entertainment t.v. shows--If I remember right, the parents are actually suing or something like that--
It was on a number of sites the other week and they all had a pretty similar article. I know this probably isn't the best source but heres the link :
http://www.online.ie/Entertainment/News/News.aspx?newsId=654164
I came across your blog on the internet and thought it was well written and thought out - though I can't say that I agree with many of the criticisms. I also watched the Oprah special on that Monday evening and was so moved that I invited my 10 year old daughter to watch with my husband and I. I wanted my daughter to see that the life she has should not be taken for granted, I also wanted her to see that Oprah did not start with
a lot but was able to put herself
in a position where she was able to touch the lives of so many.
I must respectfully disgree with you ABW, when you suggest that somehow Oprah has lost touch with her roots because she was unable to carry the water on her head. As an American of African descent (I do take exception with the term African-American as I believe that it automatically separates me from any other American in this country, it is also not technically accurate if we were to consider that my ancestors were most recently from the West Indies - that is however, for another blog) I do not believe that we, because of our heritage, must have this knowledge in order to be true to our heritage.
In terms of the material things that the girls were introduced to, I only have a few questions for thought. If these girls are going to one day deal with individuals who will have the power to bring real change to their hometowns, is it not important for those girls to be viewed as equals by those individuals? If you do believe that Oprah is imposing "American" materialism on these young ladies, I ask, do you believe that those materials can be found in any wealthy person's home in Africa? If so, is she really imposing "American" materialism or is she providing them with the comforts of those in a particular socio-economic class, regardless of their country of origin?
I am not sure, ABW if you have children but I can tell you as a mother of two that the young ladies did not behave very differently from any child who is unused to certain treats. I do not allow my children to eat candy and as a result last Halloweeen, I found that my son ate two pieces of candy given to him by his teacher - on the empty stomach, he felt sick and was throwing up that evening, he has also told me that he will not eat chocolate again because he thinks it makes him sick. Their behavior at the Christmas party was not unusual with regards to overeating. Stuffing food in their clothing is also not something to be concerned about - their lives had been full of uncertainty and in their experience, food is not guaranteed the next day, like those mammals who fatten themselves in the winter and collect food, they were simply trying to be prepared - in time, they will begin to trust that all they have will not be taken away from them.
Of course most of these young ladies miss home terribly and may feel guilty about the fact that they have an opportunity that their family can not take advantage of at this time - the fact remains that their families are benefitting now from having one less mouth to feed and will benefit in the future from this experience for their daughters. To suggest that the premise of the school might be ill advised because of the girls' natural feelings is to ignore the big picture. In order to bring about real change, the girls must experience real change including a change in environment. It is not enough to bring water to a village unless the people in the village change their attitude and make it safe for those who know how to bring irrigation and grow crops. To change the attitude of the many, you must start with a few and your best options are the children.
Finally, I have read blogs that criticize Oprah for not starting a school in the United States - there are problems in the school system here, they say and she could have really made a difference especially in the inner city. My response, shame on us for claiming to be a superpower and then waiting for Oprah to fix our problems.
Hello Anxious Black Woman,
It saddens me that we, as African Americans, are so quick to find fault with each other's attempts to improve the quality of life for the less fortunate. Perfect people we are not. Oprah may have "issues" but how many of us don't. When one knows better, they do better.
Why are we overlooking the fact that Oprah "earned" enough of her own money --the hard way -- to "spend" more money than most of her critics will ever earn in a lifetime. Anyone familiar with Hollywood and the Television industry is acutely aware of the fact that Oprah achieved her success in an unfriendly arena populated by white men.
I don't agree with everything Oprah does or says but she deserves our respect and support. I wonder how many of this living legend's critics have written her a letter voicing their concerns. I wonder how many African Americans can't wait to see Oprah fall flat on her face instead of praying for her and asking God to gift her with the wisdom and understanding she'll need to avoid "dying broke" like so many of our celebrities have done.
Peace.
hi,i read everyones comments,and i was wondering if any of you seen ..i don't know if it was 2020,but at different times people told me about an interview concerning oprah,stedmon,(i guess i spelled his name right)anyway it was told to me,that oprah sad she wish she wasn't black,and had bad things to say about blacks.when i first heard it,i didn't believe it,and disregaurded it...later that week at work i over heard other women talking about the same thing,so i asked them about it,and some of the things they said,was said,pissed me off!,i felt like ok ..get over it,you're black!don't like it...deal with it!,i brought that up to say,know i wonder why she did what she did concering the school in africa. once thought when i was very young,she was such a generous person,gave a black family of 4 a new home,and so many other things,to people.but someone then said to me...girl oprah claims that on here taxes!,then i was like...ooooo K!!!,so again i'm wondering if she for some reason hates beinging black,then why is she so giving when it came to those kids,and is it from the heart.also manchild,....i agree with you on praying for oprah,...we all not only need pray but need to include god in our lives,(which i notices when most people become wealthy,it seems they feel they don't need him)..but i dissagree with you when you said praying for for wisdom concering mer money,the woman too smart to even allow herself to go broke!,also you said we should support and respect,well respect is a give and take thing,firts ok,yes "Oprah achieved her success in an unfriendly arena populated by white men." but she's NOT the only sista who's wealthy!,maybe just made more than most sista(that we've heard).but i won't support or respect anyone who put her own people down,because she's gotten too high on her butt!...peace!
sorry for some of the misspelled words!...lol
Anonymous, could you let us know when she was on 20/20? I mean, there are things like youtube and TiVo that would help us review the things Oprah allegedly said. This is sounding an awful lot like the urban legend when Tommy Hilfigger appeared on Oprah and said disparaging things about black people, only to find out he never appeared on Oprah until recently (just to clear up the misperception that he was on Oprah!). I won't believe that until I see actual footage.
Hey,
Your blog is absolutely heaven sent. I am a South African living in the US,and I have been so mad at how this school has been misrepresented to the American public. Reading your post is asif I am hearing myself, seriously it's scary. There are several things I want to add about oprah's school
1) Most of the girls at the school come from privileged backgrounds. Oprah misrepresents this to the people in the US pretending to have "saved poor girls" Let me assure you that this is not the case.
2) The school was started with very little consideration for our history, and our culture and our current politics. Who are the teachers? What are they teaching? A beauty salon.. what the hell. What is she teaching these girls in terms of beauty.
3) A girl was sent away from the school for speaking Afrikaans, which is one of our 11 that stems from our colonial past.
4) I know of people who were seriously interested in interviewing some of the girls to learn about their experiences. They will not allow people to even come close to the girls.
5)Oprah could have helped so many more young people with the money, but instead she decided to build an elite institute for young girls mostly of whom are children of people who could have provided an education for the children...
I came across this page while searching for news on the recent sad events at Oprah's school. I completely agree with the original post. This not about Oprah camps. I am an African woman and a visiting lecturer in the United States. I was disgusted with the media coverage on the school and should add that to have Diane Sawyer call the it "the first school for girls in Africa" on national television was a traversty and says a lot for her education.
I am sooo glad to see that others got the same feeling that I did. When speaking to many people, they all praised Oprah for her 'generous and wonderful contribution'. I walked away from the TV special feeling absolutely creeped out. You put expressed my feelings to a T.
Thanks to the new posters who found my early commentary on Oprah's school. In light of recent events, I'm sad to say "I told you so."
November 21, 2007
Dear Editor,
When will the news media break it's despicable silence regarding the sexual abuse charges at the Oprah Winfrey Leadership Academ For Girls school in South Africa? Who do you media people think your conspiring to deceive and bribe when this serious child molestation case is concealed from the public audience? The public are now aware of your cover up story tactic's that the media sometimes uses on other character names such as Stacy and Steve, in order to cover up Miss Winfrey's true story and child abuse and child neglect case in South Africa.
'Very Respectfully,'
Mrs. Tracey Elaine Blair
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